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Working With Your Doctor
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It might be the first thing you've agreed upon since your wedding date.
Finally, you and your spouse have decided that now is the time to begin
"trying." You've agreed that you want to start a family. The idea behind a preconception visit is that a couple and an OB/GYN
doctor will begin working together on a program personally designed to
provide a quick and easy conception. Hopefully, a couple will then benefit
by experiencing a healthy pregnancy while decreasing the risk of miscarriage
and baby birth defects. Wanted: A Wealth of Information Life Style In addition, your physician will probably ask you: What to Ask Make Some Changes At a preconception visit, patients are often prescribed prenatal
vitamins to ensure they are getting the proper amount of folic acid prior to
conception. Laura Gaebelein, a new mother from North Royalton, Ohio, recalls
the strong emphasis her doctor placed on folic acid at her preconception
visit. "After talking with my doctor, he checked the over-the-counter
multi-vitamin I was already taking to make sure it provided enough folic
acid," she says. "Since it did, I was able to continue taking it while
trying to conceive." Doctors also encourage eating healthy foods that are high in folic
acid. Orange juice, green leafy vegetables, beans and whole grain products
are naturally rich in folates, which are the natural forms of folic acid. Some
products such as fortified breakfast cereals, enriched grain products and
vitamin supplements are a source of a synthetic form of folic acid that is
easier for the body to digest than the natural form. One bowl of Cheerios, for
example, provides 50 percent of the amount needed daily. Dr. Kathleen Neal, an OB/GYN in Cleveland, Ohio, tells
her patients to stop drinking alcohol entirely before they plan to conceive. "We
don't know what the safe limit of alcohol intake is in relation to fetal
alcohol syndrome," she stresses. She also advises patients to have caffeine
only in moderation. Mary Carocci of Sagamore Hills, Ohio gave birth to her first child
in June. She summarizes her preconception visit with her doctor with these
words of advice that he told her: "Act as if you are pregnant today. Treat
your body as if you are already pregnant." In addition to prescribing prenatal vitamins, her doctor suggested a
healthy diet that included consuming caffeine and alcohol in moderation for
both Carocci and her husband. She was surprised to learn that the average
couple takes one year to conceive. "The doctor emphasized that we shouldn't get too anxious about
conceiving," she says. Both Carocci and Gaebelein agree that much of what was discussed at
their preconception visits was really common sense and good
nutrition. Dr. Neal confirms this with her standard words of wisdom to patients: "Healthy moms
typically have healthy babies."
For many couples today, a preconception visit is the first step on the
road to a healthy pregnancy. Preconception visits were first recommended in
1989 by a federal panel of experts from the U.S. Department of Health and
Human Services. The popularity of preconception visits today illustrates an
encouraging fact: Women are taking charge of their reproductive health more
than ever before.
At a preconception visit, most doctors will want a detailed "his and
hers" health history. Information about the future parents-to-be's health
histories is usually requested in the following categories:
Because life style can influence one's ability to conceive, be prepared
to answer questions relating to where you live, where you work, your
occupation and how your leisure time is spent.
While much information is required from a couple at a preconception
visit, the appointment should be an exchange of communication with you and
your partner also asking your doctor any questions that either of you may
have. Some questions suggested by both patients and doctors include:
The March of Dimes Birth Defects
Foundation recommends that all women who could become pregnant take a
multi-vitamin containing 400 micrograms of folic
acid daily to help prevent birth defects.
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