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According to the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM), while the McCaughey’s were seeing a Board-Certified OB/GYN who claimed to be an "infertility specialist," their doctor was NOT a reproductive endocrinologist. A certified, responsible reproductive endocrinologist would most likely have properly monitored Mrs. McCaughey during the cycle to observe how her egg follicles were developing. The doctor then would have either induced ovulation when only a few follicles were present, or she would have had Mrs. McCaughey’s cycle canceled all together if it looked as if there was a potential for too many eggs to be released – and hence, too many embryos from forming. In the simplest terms, although the birth was a miracle, the conception of that many babies could have been controlled without selective reduction even coming into the picture. |
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For this reason, it is imperative for anyone who may even suspect they have a fertility problem to know how to go about getting the proper medical care up front. Unfortunately, when an unsuspecting couple is confronting a fertility challenge, their gut reaction usually leads them to pick a doctor’ s name who "specializes in infertility" out of the phone book, and then put all of their trust in this doctor for proper care. As some fertility patients have experienced, you could be wasting precious time, energy, and money if you take this approach.
One of the first pieces of advice I give a couple who is struggling with a
fertility difficulty is to educate themselves as much as possible on
fertility and infertility treatment. This includes knowing how to select and
work with a physician and clinic that will meet their individual needs.
Knowing the right questions to ask helps ensure they are getting the proper
medical care. But how do you know what questions to ask, or how to select
that suitable doctor? The answer is right at your fingertips. There are many
resources on the Internet to equip struggling couples with the appropriate
questions to ask their fertility specialist. Although you must be a wise
consumer of Internet information, a wealth of information is available at
some very reputable sites. For some great tips on how to find the right
fertility specialist and clinic for your needs check out these resources:
- RESOLVE’s "What is an Infertility Specialist (and how to get the best medical care)"
- INCIID’s "Criteria for Selecting a High-Tech Infertility Clinic"
- Fertilitext’s "How Can I Know Which Doctors Are Specialists?"
- Atlanta Health Centre’s "Finding the Right Doctor"
If you are still thinking "I don’t have access to a computer" or "I don’t know how to use the Internet" – never fear! Many Public Libraries now have Internet access, and some even offer classes on how to use the Internet. So now (if you are one of the five million people in the US struggling with a fertility challenge) you have NO excuses for not helping yourself in the best way possible – by getting proper medical care, and hopefully minimizing the time it takes to attain that child of your dreams.
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